A little under 12 years ago, I began this blog. I had big plans. I wanted a space to play with big ideas and what-ifs. It eventually became a place where I vented and reflected hard on being a teacher. I think it’s clear that I loved my job, that I was proud of my position, and that education and people were always at the center of what I did.
So it’s crazy because right now I’m looking to completely pivot. And it didn’t make sense until it did. I’m still playing with how to express it correctly, but here’s my first iteration:
2019 – began to wonder if there was more to just being a cog in this large-scale education machine. I love the small-school space. I love middle school. I love urban education. I’ve experienced teaching in independent schools, being homeschooled, teaching homeschooled children, and working in larger public districts. At the end of the day, I knew that one thing I couldn’t change about myself is that I’ll give 110% into all that I do. So… if that wouldn’t change, I wanted to figure out a way to better amplify my impact. I talked with a school leader about possible next steps, and she basically told me to be a teacher another year and work on building my people-leadership skills informally and that there were no internal leadership positions open for me. This was probably the push I needed though, because I applied and got accepted into High Tech High’s New School Creation program.
2020 – I accepted, and then COVID/distance-learning happened. It was a crash course of HOW MUCH DEEPER family engagement could be, and also that projects were IT. And that at the end of the day, kids and families just need to feel seen. I was relieved that I had already decided to leave before the pandemic, because I think I wouldn’t have been able to leave in 2020… (Aside: I was really annoyed: when I left, they opened up a Dean of Math/Science position at my school – a position I would have been qualified for and gladly taken had it been made available to me. This position probably opened up to support the new incoming teacher who would replace me. This brings me to another gripe: if they had just tried to build and expand my skillset in-house instead of trying to hold onto not having to find another teacher to replace me, there could have been a much smoother transition than what ended up transpiring. This made me realize that I will ALWAYS put my employees and their growth above my org’s needs).
2021 – I began seen52.org. It began as an idea for a school. It evolved. In 2020, I had lots of conversations with former and current students and foster youth, and others impacted or involved in various systems of care. In 2020-21, I did my program at High Tech High. COVID-life allowed me REST and REFLECTION. BLM 2.0 gave me space to really start taking responsibility for and helping me understand my own space as a non-Black/Brown minority. I tell people I began seen52 because I didn’t think I could reach our target population on my own. I already knew passionate educators that I ran into in the off-hours. Why not more strategically combine these hours and truly impact the populations of our kiddos who need it the most? I also did this because as a single woman in my early-30s, there was no way I was going to foster a child on my own.
2022 – but then, I did. Because even though it takes a village, the child welfare system is a really sprawled out village full of various adults and administrators doing various things… and no shade, but, with COVID, and everything, a lot of these offices were perpetually empty. And after a conversation with one special then-17-yo who was like, “I just want to live in a house that feeds me regularly,” I was like f*ck it, and I went back to trying to be a resource parent. (That process was … stupidly long. But also not that long). And so in March, 2022, I became a resource parent to the most beautiful 17 yo boy.
I also realized Seen52 was working. There’s something that’s making it work and as I figure out how to distill and share it, I knew that this year, I couldn’t go back to professionally working as an educator anymore.
In no particular order, this is why I’m leaving the education space:
- I’m a parent and the founder/pro-bono director/main volunteer at my nonprofit. Teaching requires me to be ON from 7:30AM-4PM 5 days a week. No flexibility with work schedules, appointments, rides, etc. Against the backdrop of the rest of the bay area, it’s a no-brainer that I need something with a bit more balance.
- After COVID, the inflexibility of teaching got intolerable for me. It’s funny how I’ve shifted so much on this. I believed so much in collaboration, and teacher autonomy. But, just imagine this: I can’t even take an extra 1 minute to hold a group of kids in to finish cleaning something up because then the OTHER teachers have to wait and hold a group of rowdy, hormonal 7th graders down. for YEARS, i was proud of being able to hold my bladder (healthily with no UTIs) from 8:30-3:45PM. I counted my grande Starbucks Chai with whole milk as my brunch. Hello. This is crazy.
- The education system isn’t designed for good teachers. I can’t teach the way I’m supposed to.. And I was a damn gifted teacher. I remember RANDOM details, I know faces, I can quickly adjust my lessons to hit standards and still be inquiry-based, and at the end throw in a project just for kicks. I’m the dream. I’m also a nightmare to guide because I get super defensive (but bad teachers are like this too). AND, at the end of the day, it’s not enough. I *hated* being in a pilot that tried to offload some of the mental load onto personalized e-lessons. BUT, I’m realizing that for teaching to be sustainable, we need to figure out how to help teachers realize that they HAVE to get kids used to DRY-ass content so that teachers can BREATHE. … but then if you’re a creator, and you believe that teaching should be transformative and students deserve to learn by doing, it really kills you.
- Also, honestly, I just want to be compensated more than $70K a year in the Bay Area for 11 years of experience and 2 master’s degrees (1 from an Ivy).
Every year, I read articles of “why I left the classroom.” I rolled my eyes at them. I just figured they couldn’t hang. And it’s true. It just doesn’t click until it does. My early years of teaching, I didn’t trust myself enough and I was too exhausted to interrogate myself and the systems around me. In the mid-years, I felt empowered to change things from within (teacher leadership), and when that didn’t work, tried to impact things from the outside (local politics + unionizing). I’m still in the mid-years, but I realized I need to get out NOW before I get stuck in a pattern / too dependent on the CA teacher’s pension system (which is pretty juicy if you’re old and probably the reason for why money isn’t going to kids. But that’s also a different blog).
I honestly, don’t feel bad writing this. Isn’t that crazy? Once I decided to leave.. it wasn’t weeks of thinking about it. I was just ready. I still am making direct connections with youth. I have my own favorite kid. And it’s time to… be realistic about a quality of life that could be better, and where a job is a job and not my whole life.
It’s not even bittersweet. And at this point, I’m just like, “Major respect to teachers,” but also, we need to take teachers off this pedestal, and just come to terms with the fact that in the US, education is dry as fuck– stop pressuring teachers to compete with games. Just make it relevant. Get the bots to teach [School(TM) anyone?], and have teachers just supervise. Make it a perpetual entry-level job. Because this pay is CRAZY.
2009 – private school, international, made around $20K in Asia + housing and plane tickets. It was a steal during the recession when there were literally no jobs. lol.
2012 – started at $42K with a BA from UC Berkeley and an Ed.M from Harvard — thought it was a lot.; no pension, no 401K, bad benefits.
2014 – increased to $48K with a lower teaching load, great benefits, CalSTRS pension
2017 – jumped to $55K at unified school – good benefits, continued pension.
2018 – returned to former district, bargained to $63-4K with stipends added – benefits are just so-so, continued pension.
2020 – final teacher’s salary after 9 years of public teaching: $65-67K? LOL. yikes.
(PS: not sure if the salaries are exactly correct but they’re definitely in the ballpark)